by the rules

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phrase (1)

: in the way that is most common, expected, and acceptable
After years of boredom, she grew tired of living by the rules.
He has played by the rules throughout his career.

by the rules

2 of 2

phrase (2)

: in the way that is most common, expected, and acceptable
After years of boredom, he grew tired of living by the rules.
She has always played by the rules throughout her career.

Examples of by the rules in a Sentence

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Punishing undersea saboteurs is further complicated by the rules of jurisdiction. — Michael Albertus, Foreign Affairs, 30 Sep. 2026 Complete with a leather cap, fingerless gloves, and knee-high boots, the pop star definitely wasn’t playing by the rules. — Amanda Le, InStyle, 27 Sep. 2026 If your property is not bound by the rules and obligations of a homeowners association, emphasize that, too. — Lew Sichelman, Miami Herald, 17 Sep. 2026 Heath Ledger’s Joker is an enemy who doesn’t play by the rules, attacking the city with no clear political goal beyond creating panic and chaos. — Joshua Rothkopf, Los Angeles Times, 11 Sep. 2026 See All Example Sentences for by the rules

Word History

First Known Use

Phrase (1)

1909, in the meaning defined above

Time Traveler
The first known use of by the rules was in 1909

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“By the rules.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/by%20the%20rules. Accessed 5 Oct. 2026.

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